Sexual Massage Techniques

A sexual massage is just something I LOVE to receive from my partner. It always relaxes my body and my mind, and never fails to stir my center till I’m all wet and ready to have mind-blowing sex!

I’m sure you want your woman to feel this too so I’m going to give you some basic sexual massage moves you can do tonight. Ready?

How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage

In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don’t have them, don’t worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you.

Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well.

Use your hot breath

Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don’t crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs.

Now don’t get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up!

Now, start to breath on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin.

Use your fingertips

Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches.

Palm circling

Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’, which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.

Gliding

Scoot yourself lover down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage… but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one.

Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass.

A slight – and naughtier variation – would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breathe on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don’t forget the massage part even while you’re busy sexually arousing her.)

Thumbing                           

Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt).

Now for the sexual part… continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breathe on her anus.

Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic! 

How To Turn Women On

 No matter what you read in magazines and the like, the setting isn’t as important as you may think when turning a woman on. That means that you don’t need to turn your home into a candle store before you can attempt to bed your girl. It can be done anywhere – including in the middle of the street!

Now look what I wrote – I said setting isn’t AS important as people make out, although it is important to a degree. A woman is going to feel much more at ease being sexual with you when she is alone with you, rather than in the street or in the middle of a public library.

The truth is that woman can NOT control when they get turned on. What they CAN control is how far they let it go. A woman could be turned on whilst browsing the knife section of a hardware store – you just wouldn’t know it, as it wouldn’t be the place for her to start flicking her bean now, would it?

What you are about to learn is to HOW to turn your woman on, how to KNOW when she is turned on and then how to capitalize on the situation to get her between the sheets.

The best way to go about turning your women on is through kino. Kino is one of the greatest weapons in a male’s arsenal and if you know how to use it you will have your girl giving you the greatest responses you have ever had. Soft, subtle touching is what women respond to, but you have to make sure it seems as if you do it naturally.

There are many, many ways to escalate kino but I am going to list the main ones that you want to know – the ones that will turn a women on. Good area’s to go for are the neck and lower back. These are hot spots on a women and soft, subtle touches here will send a tingle up and down her spine.

Touching her thighs and upper legs is a winner as well and is great when your sitting next to a girl. For example, your on a bus with your girl and you gently rub her upper leg, moving across to her inner thigh – what do you think that does? You guessed it – gives her a nice, warm, fuzzy feeling around that area…I don’t need to tell you what organ is nearby, do I?

Touching with your hands isn’t the only way to get your women hot under the collar either. When you are making out with your girl, why restrict to just her lips? Kissing her neck softly will make her melt! By this I mean you smell her neck at the same time and kiss it. This turns her on because you are displaying sexual power by doing it without her expecting it. She will wonder were you are going to kiss next! Anticipation for her is the key! Women want to be controlled but doing the same positions and same turn-on’s gets boring for both you and her and will make you predictable and boring.

Women wear perfume and nice smelling products for a reason, so let her know she smells nice. Mix things up a bit and tease her whilst doing this as well. Gently touch her neck with your lips as if your about to kiss her, but then pull away and continue smelling her. Make her WANT the kiss. Be spontaneous and unpredictable and she will love you for this. Doing this shows that YOU are the one in control and it also shows that you are not a needy male who is fully focused on having sex and shows her, that given the chance, YOU can be the one resisting HER, rather than vise-versa, like in relationships controlled by women (the ones that usually last 2 weeks before collapsing.)

Top 10 Female Turn Ons

When it comes to sexual turn ons, men and women are very different. It is not a myth that women are attracted to a man who is comfortable with his emotions. It is also true that many women are on the hunt for an attractive man who knows how to treat a lady right! The following is a list of the top ten female turn ons gathered from hours spent listening to women tell it like it is. 


1. A man who can make you feel like a woman 
For many women, respect is the number one thing that they look for in a man. Not only is it a prerequisite, it is also a big turn on! A man who respects a woman and appreciates her for who she is has the power to make her weak in the knees. 


2. A man who is not afraid to take charge
Women like strength and not just physical strength. Women like to think that their man can take charge of any situation. Giving a woman a feeling of protection is endearing as well as arousing. 


3. A man who can be dominated
All relationships involve a power dynamic. A man can be strong with his woman, but must also be able to surrender some of that power. A woman likes to take control sometimes and feels sexy when a man is ready and willing to respond to all her demands. 


4. A man with a sensitive side
Contrary to popular belief, women are not looking for a man who wants to talk about his emotions constantly. Sensitivity is a good thing but more important is to be emotionally well-balanced. One of the biggest female turn ons is having a man who is not afraid to show his emotions. 


5. A man who can hold his own
A man who is unable to take care of himself turns women off! Being self-sufficient reassures a woman that she will not have to handle everything in a relationship. Men who are overly dependent are perceived as weak and that is not an attractive quality! 


6. A man who is successful
Success does not necessarily mean wealth. Women feel comfortable with the fact that a man can support himself and his family. Most women are looking for a man who is ambitious and passionate about life. A successful person appears more confident and confidence is always a turn on. 


7. A man in uniform
Sorry men, but this is not a myth. Women love a man in uniform! Although firefighters and policemen top the list, most likely any uniform will do! 


8. A man with a great body
Women are not nearly as fixated on this one as men are, but women are also turned on by a man with a fantastic body. Women have differing ideas about what is physically attractive in a man, but wide shoulders and a cute backside doesn't hurt!


9. A man with a brain and a sense of humor
Although it may be fun to have a fling with the male version of Barbie, women are more turned on by men who are smart and funny. A dim-witted dullard gets boring fast. Women want their fires lit by someone who can tell a good joke and can challenge them intellectually.


10. A man who is good with kids
Many men dread this one, so thank goodness it is number 10 on the list. Women are not necessarily picturing you as the father of their children, but it is endearing to see the nurturing side of a man. Men might not want to hear it and women might not like to admit it, but a man holding a baby is beautiful and a turn on! 

Good Guys vs. Bad Boys

It’s such an obvious bad deal, the Bad Boy, especially when you take into account that you won’t be able to change anything about him (and you really shouldn’t jump into a relationship if all you want to do is change the other person). Despite this, the Bad Boy seems to keep winning. What is it about him that makes us crazy? I have condensed our most critical errors into a simple list

1.) Independence.

A Bad Boy is not clingy. In fact, he makes it patently obvious that he doesn’t need you around. This lack of regard for you can appear to be independence. What draws most women in is the idea of a man who will not become sucked into us and lose touch with the rest of the world. We are drawn to someone who comes into our world with a world of their own. Of course, most often independence isn’t what the Bad Boy is about. He genuinely just doesn’t care.

2.) Spontaneity.

Unpredictable like no one you’ve ever known, the Bad Boy is a roller coaster where the Good Guy feels like a nice stroll in the park. The rush from one end of the emotional spectrum to the other turns any relationship into a great drama, and you into its protagonist. This might feel like an adventure, but it’s not: it’s a vicious cycle of all-consuming destruction. Wouldn’t you rather take a last-minute trip to some vast wilderness outside the city limits for a weekend of climbing, river-rafting or horse riding?

3.) Sexual prowess.

The legendary Bad Boy has confidence that suggests he has reached a comfort level that enables him to ravish you the way you were made to be ravished. He’s aggressive and not afraid to tell you what he wants–or what he wants you to do. He’s a sex god, right? Not necessarily–if he doesn’t much care about you, who’s to say he cares about making sure the experience is as enjoyable for you as it is for him?

So there you have it, the Bad Boy’s most alluring qualities, exposed as lack of concern, instability and insatiable sexual selfishness. Is he still appealing or are you ready to give the Good Guy a shot?

Other related links for more about bad boys:

The Feminine Woman (article)

 Ask Steve Santagati 

Offical Bad Boys-The Movie Site

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“Horribly horribly sad tonight. Accepting that the person you love simply doesnt love you anymore sucks. I have been crying for days, and cant function. It fuels a self hatred fire that drives me to escort. To prove I am desireable, wanted. But then I realize that it can never replace love. Never. There is no comfort in being wanted for sex, but not loved. I think it hurts more. I want to be loved. I want to make love to someone who loves me back, not sell myself to someone who doesnt know my name. But that choice isnt mine to make. I can sell myself, but i cant make someone love me. I used to believe in dreams and love, but i cant feel anything anymore. I think even god forgot about me. I cant even fake happiness enough to pull off a date anymore. I am ignoring it all, wallowing in sadness while the month slips away and i dont have the rent money. Hating every man Ive ever met, but loving the only one who doesnt want me.”